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Emptiness Versus Void & Insecurity

“There are healthy ways to fill the emptiness.”

Do you see the look on that girls face in the picture above?

This picture went massively viral on Pinterest and that people have mistaken what true emptiness really means.

All my life I grew up hoping that in no way, shape, or form I would have to feel emptiness inside of me.

Of course it was because of the conditioning and I’ve always heard negative context when it came to feeling empty inside.

I kept running from emptiness, along with most of the 7.5 billion individuals on this planet. The problem was, is that because I ran from this emptiness I was never truly aware of the present moment.

And since, being aware of the present moment is the on absolute and constant internal freedom in existence, what I running away from was precisely that.

Have you ever heard the term, that the truth hurts?

The truth may hurt the ego, false identity or the mind made up images that we have taken to be true, but it doesn’t truly hurt not your being that is. The truth is the only thing that will set you free.

However, being that the mind cannot comprehend the present moment, the true present moment felt within being, this means that in order to be aware of the present moment, then being aware of the emptiness inside the arising presence.

What you are in the most absolute sense is not the image that you have of who you are in your mind, who you have been told you are your whole life it is the awareness of this present moment, who you are is the awareness of your internal emptiness.

What I mean by emptiness is that you cannot be aware of this moment by thinking about it. The moment that you think about, is only perceived through the eyes past, so really what you are seeing is the past.

The only way to be aware of that which you are, which is right now is let thought drop. This also includes emotions as well, not forever just for this single moment. Emotions are the bodies reactions to your thoughts. Both are passing, both are like clouds in the sky coming and going, but the sky itself does not go anywhere, and neither does emptiness, neither does the present moment.

The sky must become empty of all these clouds in order to be aware of the totality of the sky. The present moment (you) must become allow emptiness to come in order to be fully aware of who you are.

Your emotions are your bodies reactions to your thoughts. A thought comes creates and the emotion energizes the thoughts and anything that you latch onto that is coming and going will blind you from being internally fulfilled.

You take the thought or the emotion to be based on absolute reality and it is causing you internal suffering. Realizing who you are through emptiness is creating peace, joy, freedom & fulfillment.

So emptiness is and it is without the comings and goings of both thoughts and emotions.

By becoming empty free from thought, from emotion, the present moment has become aware of itself or thus arising conscious presence.

There are few words in the regular English language that people often use to describe how they are feeling.

A lot of people just as that picture above will say “I’m feeling empty” or “I feel a void inside” and even “I feel insecure inside.”

And according to the vibration of words, the energy felt behind the words of these three different sentences are felt as deep pain inside.

But they are very different and the mix up and caused humanity a lot of suffering. The first thing to know is that a void within, or an insecurity is an insecure mind. It is an insecure way of looking at life.

The two words that are similarly correct in the way that we use them are void or insecurity. Both of which mean to feel a deep sense of lack inside.

However, the word we have been misusing and largely because of the cultural language is emptiness.

In fact, a very synonym or the word that means the same thing according to the dictionary of void is emptiness.

Let’s go a bit further into void and insecurity.

When you say “I” have a void within, I feel insecure within generally what you are referring to is the self-image, the idea you have about how you are is off.

And because you think that this image of who you are is the absolute you, then 100/100 you feel insecure or a void because it is an image, created, sculpted, molded shaped from the society around you. The self-image is shaped from the conditioning, the information, the wiring of the brain, the rules, laws and most significantly “the way to be.” in order to fit in with the rest of the world.

The sense of insecurity is that your self-image is this way, but society says it should be that way which leaves of gap between, wanting us to want more, to be more, to feel more accepted by our surroundings.

The self-image would hold absolutely zero weight without the people in your life who you also see as images of who they are in your mind. An image of who you are allows you to distinguish who you think you are compared to who you think that other someone is.

“How do I fit into this world?” your mind asks, and that’s where your self-image is born.

This self-image gets so fixated on how others see you, so obsessed with fitting in that the image goes from being a practical use, to an obsession. It turns into what most would say if I can just mold my personality into society and fit like a square peg into a square hole, it’s a SURE FIRE WAY to be LOVED.

With this being said, it’s not about the whole ‘not caring what other people think’ nonsense. Most people lie to themselves about not caring what people think and caring what other people think is not hurting you to a certain extent. You must care about what people think if you want to survive in this world and thrive for that matter.

It’s about gaining whether you gain or lose your sense of internal freedom, based on how others think.

And you’re the realization of your internal freedom happens when you realize the REAL you which is not based on image of who you are which is relative to other images.

The image you have of who you are in this physical world is relative or in comparison with the other 7.5 billion people on this planet. But what is not relative is the true essence of all that is, which is one.

Not the proverbial one, the cliché one but the source that lies in everything as everything, which is nothingness itself. Nothingness and emptiness are this moment; this moment is not about whatever location you are in. The location you are in is relative to the next location, you are the space from which this is observing presence is looking.

It’s not about believing you are one, it’s about observing space, from the place of space and space is all that is. Don’t ask the thought, which can only see and perceive objects, feel the space between the thoughts.

The best question to ask from within when you are feeling insecure and lack inside is….

“Am I trying to run from emptiness or am I trying to fill my emptiness with thought.”

Emptiness is who you are, it is the freedom and you will feel a sense of lack if you try to fill it with thought.

Trying to fill it with thought will end up leading to things such as overeating, alcohol abuse, having sex, generally speaking addictive behaviors.

It’s why they call them addictive personalities because it’s TOO MUCH personality, too much doing in the hopes of security and not enough simply being as in taking a deep conscious breath and letting this breath give you the freedom your looking outwardly for.

The mind itself is insecure, unstable and unbalanced.

Why?

Because the thoughts that it creates, come and go. And anything that comes and goes and never stops coming and going is unstable.

The unstableness, the insecurity is a part of being a human being, in fact it’s what gives life it’s flavor. The mind being insecure is not a bad thing, it does not create pain and suffering inside.

What does create pain inside is that believing the mind can fulfill you, that once the self-image is sculpted in the perfect way I’ll then be fulfilled.

What does create pain is that believing that I need to hang on DEARLY to my past because the good times build up the self-image that I have cherished for so long.

What does create pain is believing that my fulfillment lies somewhere in the future because then my self-image will be getting carved to perfection and then I can finally deserve love. This is a grand illusion that is believed in by so many causing you internal pain.

Emptiness is not insecurity or a void is the direct opposite of both. Being aware of the emptiness which is one unstable awareness from within, because it does not change, it does not rely on anything to happen and it does not leave you, because it (conscious presence) is you.

Matthew Scott Donnelly

Matthew Scott Donnelly was born and raised in Indiana. At the age of 24 he decided that he had not manifest a life that he was happy with, and decided to dedicate his heart and soul to Personal Growth and Development material. Roughly about one year later at the age of 25 he went from basic personal growth teachings to the a deeper realm into spirituality. Matthew is now 27 and his main focus is to continue on the path of awakening, and utilize his Facebook marketing skills to spread Spiritual and Consciousness related material to the rest of the world. You can follow Matthew and his work down below.

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